Your Domi

Your domi is the home of your inner self, your character. It defines who you are and it is the base for your personality and your interactions with the world around you. Formation and development of your domi is an extensively explored and interdisciplinary topic. Genetics, education, living environment, culture, society all shape and affect your domi long before you even become aware of its existence and before you are able to form it yourself. At birth you are like an empty piece of property where a multitude of people, foremost your parents, start to construct and reconstruct a house for you, your domi.

Now just try to imagine that you are the owner of a property where you want to build your dream home. But there are a dozen of architects, building companies and construction workers errantly running around tackling just whatever task they consider useful in all conscience. The result most likely will not be your dream house! Whether it ends in total frustration and how big the drama will be decisively depends on how well all those participants involved really know you and how much priority your wellbeing has for them. In addition your state of contentment also depends on how well you know yourself and how tolerant you are, i.e. whether you even know what your dream house should look like and how easily you can accept deviations from this ideal.

If the window frames got the wrong color or the bathroom is missing the tap we hastily start looking for the wrongdoer amongst all the contributing people who acted proactively, often without coordinating with you but in good faith. That way an alleged culprit is easily found for such a problem. However this rarely will be the final solution and chances are high that similar problems will occur again in the future, until we realize who in the end is responsible for the construction of your brick-and-mortar home as well as your domi. Only you alone. Only you know how your dream home shall look like. You have to decide who may participate in its construction and what tasks shall be done at what time. You have to supervise the works and check whether the results are in line with your targets. You have to make daily decisions if deviations or unexpected troubles occur.

When building a house you might consider all this as a given. This should be the same case when working on your personality, your domi. To realize this, and even more to live it, requires a high degree of self-awareness and the ability to make judgements detached from your ego and your own personality. INVENDOMI enables you to reach this ambitious goal.

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